Out of the Box

December 21, 2025

Trapped in deception, losing the fight 

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This piece is based on the book "Leadership and Self-Deception" by the Arbinger Institute and it's lessons about leadership in all phases of life told in parable form.

Out Of The Box


[Verse 1] 

I felt the pull to help, but I turned away 

Let the moment pass, like it was yesterday 

Justified my silence, built these walls inside 

Blamed the world around me, while the truth just died 


[Pre-Chorus] 

Inflating all my virtues, shrinking everyone else 

Seeing threats and obstacles on every shelf 


[Chorus] 

I'm in the box, can't see the light 

Trapped in deception, losing the fight 

Viewing you as objects, not as souls like me 

Self-betrayal's calling, but I can't break free 

Oh, out of the box, that's where I wanna be 

Out of the box, set my heart free 


[Verse 2] 

At work we point the fingers, collusion in the air 

You provoke my anger, I provoke your stare 

Cycles of resentment, trust begins to crack 

No technique can fix it when the mindset's off track 


[Pre-Chorus] 

Exaggerating faults, distorting what I see 

The problem's always out there, never inside me 


[Chorus] 

I'm in the box, can't see the light 

Trapped in deception, losing the fight 

Viewing you as objects, not as souls like me 

Self-betrayal's calling, but I can't break free 

Oh, out of the box, that's where I wanna be 

Out of the box, set my heart free 


[Bridge] 

What if I stop justifying, face the truth I know? 

Admit where I went wrong, let the real me show 

See you as a person, with your hopes and fears 

Empathy and honesty, washing away the tears 

Accountability's the key, to open up the door 


[Final Chorus] 

Step out of the box, into the light 

Outward mindset shining bright 

Seeing you as people, hearts finally align 

No more self-deception, leaving blame behind 

We're out of the box, together we'll be 

Out of the box, wild and free 

Out of the box! 


[Outro] 

Out of the box... (fading harmonies) 

Break free...



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